Initiation Phase Meeting

Establish four goals during initial meeting with your mentor

1. Become Acquainted

Spend some time getting to know one other, building a rapport, sharing career histories and exploring what you may have in common. Meeting somewhere other than the office can encourage conversation in a more relaxed and neutral environment. 

2. Verbalize your Vision and Purpose of the Partnership

Again, it is important in the establishment of the partnership that individual expectations form a good match. Take this opportunity to delve deeper into your mutual motivations such as why you wanted to participate in the mentoring process and what you hope to get out of the relationship.  Discuss your learning and communications styles so you can work well together. The mentee should state career goals, strengths and talents, and identify ways the mentor can provide support. This is a good time to review the many roles of the mentor and identify which ones best support the goals of this specific partnership. Additionally, talk about confidentiality, including what is and isn’t acceptable to share with others. This may also be a good time to state your preferences, limits, and pet peeves to enter the relationship with as much information as possible to ensure success.

3. Establish the Nuts and Bolts of the Partnership

This is where you negotiate the mentoring arrangements, including agreements on goals, expectations, length of the relationship, confidentiality, feedback processes, and meeting logistics. The mentee should take responsibility for setting up and managing the meetings. Establish if it is appropriate to contact each other outside of the scheduled meetings. These ground rules provide the necessary framework to optimize the relationship.  

4. Develop the Mentoring Agreement


THE MENTORING AGREEMENT >